My husband and I recently walked some families through a healing season, after the wives discovered their husband's secret porn use.

And I get it, now. Porn use affects as much as 70% of the church, according to Josh McDowell, and is, in his estimation, the critical issue facing Christianity in the earth today.

You are not alone.

After the pain I have seen in the eyes of women, I can no longer ignore this issue.

The internet is a sea of misinformation on the subject of porn addiction. Not only is it a noisy place, but it can be a very ugly, confusing place, where it seems that the options are either 1. "do little-to-nothing", or 2. "get a divorce". The internet is a place where a hurting spouse is made to feel overwhelmed, as though she must obtain expensive therapy services, or face the loss of her marriage.

We can do better.

Imagine: Here you are, a betrayed spouse, just discovering a husband's porn addiction. Or you are finding out that he has relapsed yet again, and you are finally ready to deal with the issue. Your nervous system is highly dis-regulated. And you are extremely vulnerable.

I've got you. You are in a "fight for love", and I am here to tell you: There is great hope.

I believe both your weapons of war AND your tools for rebuilding a safe, intimate marriage can and should also be beautiful. You need a quiet, calm, visually appealing place to gather information, and engage your own healing process.

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